She throws some flowers on the ground because the arrangement wasn’t up to her specifications. Another woman insults her fiance’s mother and makes her clean the wedding dress with a toothbrush. And the last woman blows the wedding budget and laughs.
And these are the women getting married?
I’d had enough of this Bridezillas marathon and it was only the second show. I am an attractive, reasonably sane, employed, caring woman…and single. But the crazy ones on my latest WEtv marathon are the women that get married.
Do men really marry bitches?
Sherry Argov, author of the popular books “Why Men Date Bitches” and “Why Men Marry B*tches”, suggests that when a woman gives a man everything by being very nice and open, he’ll be turned off. He may appreciate the gestures but that’s not the woman he will marry. Instead, he’ll marry the woman who is a challenge or what some would call – the bitch.
Apparently I have the game completely wrong. Why does this strategy work?
Argov writes, “The bitch is not rude or abrasive because she’s smart enough to know that being considerate is more effective. But she won’t compromise herself to be in a relationship. She won’t work overtime to ‘catch a husband”. Because of this, he doesn’t classify her as a mindless woman he can take advantage of.”
Men are natural hunters. When a woman gives him everything up front without him having to work for it, he begins to think that she does this sort of thing for every man. He no longer feels special. Who knew men wanted to feel special?
I once had a man that I gave him all my love and attention, my meals, my well you know…and he still wasn’t satisfied or committed. I’d been over accommodating and flexible to his schedule. I’d basically laid my heart on the table for him to enjoy and would become upset when he didn’t reciprocate my love. Granted it had only been a few weeks, but I felt we were inseparable. Perhaps I should have double checked to make sure he felt the same way.
“Men tend to feel at ease with a woman who doesn’t care so much because then he doesn’t have to be fully responsible for someone else’s happiness. When a man sees you are happy with him but you can be just as happy having nothing to do with him, that’s when he won’t want to leave you side…” stated Argov.
When you see a man with a woman who obviously is out of her mind, it’s all because she’s nice to him and he had to win her over. He feels like the king of the jungle because he calmed her crazy into something he could marry – regardless if she’s still a brat to everyone else. Most women are too busy trying to keep a man that they forget they are the prize to be kept.
The secret is all turning the power tables so that you are always in control. Before he knows it, he’s chasing you. “Self-respect is a one-punch knockout to a guy. When you are confident enough to wield your power and you show that you aren’t fearful of losing him, he becomes fearful of losing you. “Wow. She’s quick. This one is quality. I will need to mind my p’s and q’s to show her my finer qualities in order to keep her interest”. And just like that – Domino’s pizza and beer will be upgraded to red roses and Cristal Champagne.”
As you venture out into the world of dating, keep in mind that nice GALS seem to finish last. There’s a difference between being challenging and being ridiculous. You don’t have to go overboard with your standards but at least have some. Remember that he doesn’t want the prize that’s easy for everyone to achieve, he wants something special that he earned. Who knew bitches were a special prize to be earned?
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