The beautiful Jennifer Lopez recently spoke with Glam Belleza Latina about just how she stays so beautiful. In fact, he 43 year old can give a 20 year old a run or her money.

So what’s her secret? When asked if it’s love the singer, currently dating 25 year old Casper Smart, responds, Absolutely”. “But I don’t think it’s the love of somebody else. It’s learning to love yourself, like Whitney Houston sang. That really is the greatest love of all,” she adds.

But that wasn’t always that way. “We beat ourselves up so bad, [saying] ‘I messed up. I made the wrong choice,’ ” says Lopez. ” I started embracing that I do make mistakes. I’m a human being. I’m supposed to be flawed. I’m perfect in my imperfections.”

She notes her recent divorce from Latin singer Marc Anthony. “After Marc and I decided to divorce,” she says, “I came across this song ‘Dance Again’ while working on my album. It became a kind of mantra: You will live. You will love. You will dance again. I needed that song.”

On her evolving style, “I still like to wear big hoops,” she says. “Women should never go without earrings. Passing on them is an opportunity missed.”

Lopez also provides make up tips for staying beautiful. She says contouring is one of the best tips she’s ever gotten from the pros. —– Lighten up the dark places on your face like your eyes’ inner corners.

For more beauty tips and Jennifer’s exclusive interview head over Glam Belleza Latina

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